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26 December 2007

New Year's Resolutions...


Oh boy.


Here we go.


I am a firm believer in the "do over". Endless hours on the playgrounds of my youth taught me the value of a second chance. Missed the basket? No problem, call a "do over". Didn't get the grade you wanted? Call a "do over". Well, that last action is not as simple as I represent. However, we do live in a time of almost endless do overs. We can bounce back from almost any failure. Sometimes all that is required is a simple act of forgiveness. A mulligan on the golf course is easy enough to obtain, unless money is at stake. In short, almost anything can be subject to a "do over". If you apply yourself, you can recreate your self a thousand times over. Just ask Madonna, or Cynthia McKinney or Al Gore. Even perpetual harpy Pat Buchanan has performed the feat.


New year's is the time for everyone to look for their do over. Sometimes it's about how we look, or act or what we weigh or eat. We face the prospect of the year with the idea that a fresh slate has been created for us to claim our "do over". I have gone so far as to think of every day as a potential "do over". But rather than thinking about what we would do over again, shouldn't we be thinking about what we would do better now? If we recognize the past as complete, subject only to interpretation and immutable, then we can look ahead for opportunities. This seems a healthier option than bemoaning what we do or don't have.


I would like to start 2008 with a thought towards what can I improve. How can I learn? I have two proto-citizens who are really starting to accelerate in their own learning and growth. I find myself starting to jog just to keep up. Soon, I will need a New Years every month to maintain pace with them. I guess I could simply let them leap ahead. I suspect each of us has a comfortable spot where we like to live. It's pleasant, the fridge is always full, the remote close by and the slippers extra cozy.


It's possible to simply stop. The pace of the planet has never seemed faster. The flow of information and options nearly torrential as it cascades over our existence. Standing still or out of the stream is pleasant, for a while. But that spot soon becomes very lonely. It's up to each of us to look at every night as a New Year's eve. Our chance to recreate and renew happens all the time.


There is always room for a "do over".

4 comments:

sonicfrog said...

My NY res is to stop nagging people for not commenting at my blog.... Cap????

(Hey - It's not New Years yet, so I can still nag!!! :-)

captjackharkness said...

um. sorry. been busy teaching, you know. My NY res is to comment on sonics blog more often. And try not to take things personally, and try not to be lonely in England....or not to be scared and upset to come back from Christmas to find out in a letter your NHS doc has ordered an ultrasound of your liver that he forgot to tell you about...sigh.

Citizen Deux said...

Well, on of my NYR's is to comment on Sonic's blog more often as well! So there!

CAPT, don't fret - he probably has a routine checklist for Martini sigging ne'er-do-wells.

Katana said...

Wow, if I could do-over, I'd go back and do-over some haircuts that I did in the past...phew.